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Hold On to Your Kids

Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers

by Gordon Neufeld

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  • 9 Currently reading

Published by Ballantine Books .
Written in English


The Physical Object
Number of Pages320
ID Numbers
Open LibraryOL7427593M
ISBN 100375760288
ISBN 109780375760280

Hold on to Your Kids - (PB) - - Personal Development - Children take their lead from their friends: being ‘cool’ matters more than anything else. Shaping values, identity and codes of behaviour, peer groups are often far more influential than parents. Bu.   Originally Uploaded: "This presentation is hosted in partnership with: The Thunder Bay District Health Unit, Lakehead.

In Hold Onto Your Kids, (HOYK) authors Gordon Neufeld and Gabor Maté argue that all children need attachment. If they will not receive that attachment from their parents, they will find it in peers. The job of parents is to press in and attach themselves to their children. Book Notes: Hold on to Your Kids — to “collect your child” get in their space in a friendly way–eye contact, smile, nod — morning collection is very important This is something I used to struggle with especially with my older children.

Children end up becoming conformist, anxious and alienated. In Hold on to Your Kids, acclaimed physician and bestselling author Gabor Mate joins forces with Gordon Neufeld, a psychologist with a reputation for penetrating to the heart of complex parenting. Together they pinpoint the causes of this breakdown and offer practical advice on how to. Book Notes: Hold on to Your Kids: Why Parent Need to Matter More Than is part 2 of my review and book notes from this wildly popular and extremely important book. This book is a must own and a must re-read as our children continue to grow and develop and as .


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Hold On to Your Kids will restore parenting to its natural intuitive basis and the parent-child relationship to its rightful preeminence. The concepts, principles and practical advice contained in Hold On to Your Kids will empower parents to satisfy their children's inborn need to find direction by turning towards a source of authority, contact Cited by: Hold On to Your Kids book.

Read reviews from the world's largest community for readers. International authority on child development Gordon Neufeld, /5. In the book Hold On To Your Kids, International authority on child development Gordon Neufeld, Ph.D., joins forces with bestselling author Gabor Maté, M.D., to tackle one of the most disturbing trends of our time: children today increasingly look to their peers for direction—their values, identity, and codes of behavior.

This “peer orientation” undermines family cohesion. In Hold On to Your Kids, Dr. Neufeld and Dr. Maté explore the phenomenon of peer orientation: the troubling tendency of children and youth to look to their peers for direction--for a sense of right and wrong, for values, identity and codes of behaviour.

But peer orientation undermines family cohesion, poisons the school atmosphere, and fosters /5(). Children end up becoming conformist, anxious and Hold on to Your Kids, acclaimed physician and bestselling author Gabor Maté joins forces with Gordon Neufeld, a psychologist with a reputation for penetrating to the heart of complex parenting.

Together they pinpoint the causes of this breakdown and offer practical advice on how to /5(). Children end up becoming conformist, anxious and alienated. In Hold on to Your Kids, acclaimed physician and bestselling author Hold On to Your Kids book Maté joins forces with Gordon Neufeld, a psychologist with a reputation for penetrating to the heart of complex parenting.

Hold on to your Kids Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers (Book Club Kit): Neufeld, Gordon: A psychologist with a reputation for penetrating to the heart Hold On to Your Kids book complex parenting issues joins forces with a physician and bestselling author to tackle one of the most disturbing and misunderstood trends of our time -- peers replacing parents in the lives of our children.

Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers. This book written by Dr. Gordon Neufeld is about the pivotal importance of children’s relationships to those responsible for them and the devastating impact in today’s society of competing attachments with peers.

Buy Hold on to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers by Neufeld, Gordon; Mate M.D., Gabor (ISBN: ) from Amazon's Book Store. Everyday low prices and free delivery on eligible s: school) may, in fact, be "setting up our children's peers to replace us" (p.

Such activities become what the authors call "peer oriented." Hold on to Your Kids is organized into five parts. In the first three parts of the book, Neufeld and Mat^ meticulously explore the problem of "holding on"; in the last two sections they propose. In Hold On to Your Kids, Dr.

Neufeld and Dr. Maté explore the phenomenon of peer orientation: the troubling tendency of children and youth to look to their peers for direction - for a sense of right and wrong, for values, identity and codes of behavior.

But peer orientation undermines family cohesion, poisons the school atmosphere, and fosters. "Hold on to Your Kids blows in from Canada like a Blue Northern, bringing us genuinely new ideas and fresh perspectives on parenting.

The authors integrate psychology, anthropology, neurology and their own personal and professional experiences as they examine the 'context' of parenting today.

This is a worthy book with practical implications /5(). Children end up becoming conformist, anxious and alienated. In Hold on to Your Kids, acclaimed physician and bestselling author Gabor Maté joins forces with Gordon Neufeld, a psychologist with a reputation for penetrating to the heart of complex parenting.

Together they pinpoint the causes of this breakdown and offer practical advice on how to. Hold On to Your Kids is full of easy tips for avoiding calamity * Times * Mate's book will make you examine your behaviour in a new light * Guardian * Hold on to Your Kids brings us genuinely new ideas and fresh perspectives on parenting.

The authors integrate psychology, anthropology, neurology and their own personal and professional /5(K). Hold On to Your Kids will restore parenting to its natural intuitive basis and the parent-child relationship to its rightful preeminence. The concepts, principles and practical advice contained in Hold On to Your Kids will empower parents to satisfy their children’s inborn need to find direction by turning towards a source of authority.

Editions for Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers: (Paperback published in ), (Kindle Edition published in Cited by: We hope Hold On To Your Kids can serve as a wake-up call to parents everywhere and to society at large.

The Good News We may not be able to reverse the social, cultural and economic forces driving peer orientation, but there is much we can do in our homes and in our classrooms to keep ourselves from being prematurely replaced. Hold on to Your Kids is visionary book that goes beyond the usual explanations to illuminate a crisis of unrecognized proportions.

The authors show us how we are losing contact with our children and how this loss undermines their development and threatens the very fabric of sociey. “Hold on to Your Kids brings us genuinely new ideas and fresh perspectives on parenting.

The authors integrate psychology, anthropology, neurology and their own personal and professional experiences. a worthy book with practical implications” Dr Mary Pipher, author of Reviving Ophelia and The Shelter of Each Other.

Hold on to Your Kids blows in from Canada like a Blue Northern, bringing us genuinely new ideas and fresh perspectives on parenting. The authors integrate psychology, anthropology, neurology and their own personal and professional experiences as they examine the 'context' of parenting today.4/5.

About Hold On to Your Kids. International authority on child development Gordon Neufeld, Ph.D., joins forces with bestselling author Gabor Maté, M.D., to tackle one of the most disturbing trends of our time: Children today looking to their peers for direction—their values, identity, and codes of behavior.We are back with more of our book study of “Hold On To Your Kids: Why Parents Need To Matter More Than Peers” by Neufeld and Mate.

I encourage you all to read this book; it will underscore the importance of your work as a parent and that what you do. ‎A psychologist with a reputation for penetrating to the heart of complex parenting issues joins forces with a physician and bestselling author to tackle one of the most disturbing and misunderstood trends of our time -- peers replacing parents in the lives of our children /5(11).